Monday, March 30, 2009

You Really Think We Are Living In A Post-Racial Society?

From the National Urban League:

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Contact: Amber Jaynes
Wednesday, March 25, 2009 917-673-5650 cell
ajaynes@nul.org
Veronica Clemons
Hill and Knowlton 312-927-2179
vclemons@hillandknowlton.com

National Urban League’s The State of Black America® 2009 Report
Shows Black and White Equality Still Needs Work

It’s the ‘Best of Times and Worst of Times’ for Black America

"(NEW YORK) – As the entire country observed the historic election of President Barack Obama amid one of the worst economic crises this nation has ever seen, these are the ‘best of times and the worst of times’ for black America. The National Urban League, today, released the State of Black America (SOBA) 2009 report which shows that while the entire country is hurting during these tough economic times, African-Americans are disproportionately hurting worse.

The annual State of Black America report is a barometer of conditions for African-Americans in the United States. It includes the National Urban League’s Equality Index, a statistical measurement of the disparities between blacks and whites across five categories: economics, education, health, civic engagement and social justice."
To read the full press release, go here.


For more information, visit www.nul.org.

Update: here is an excellent commentary written by Tami of What Tami Said referencing this report and a few others. I'd recommend you read it.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Teachers Can Help Their Students Build Healthy, Non-Violent Relationships

This is cool. Press release from Family Violence Prevention Fund:

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Mar 25, 2009
CONTACT Lisa Lederer
202/371-1999

Teen Dating Violence – Teachers Can Make a Difference

Innovative New Resource Helps English Teachers Use Existing Texts to Encourage Teens to Say ‘No’ to Violence

SAN FRANCISCO – One of the nation’s violence prevention leaders and a national educational organization that promotes student achievement today unveiled an innovative new resource designed to help teachers incorporate violence prevention lessons into existing curricula. The Family Violence Prevention Fund (FVPF) and the National Council of Teachers of English (NCTE) released Lessons from Literature, a free online resource that gives English teachers a framework to use the novels, poems, plays and stories they’re already teaching to help their students build healthy, non-violent relationships.

Its web site – www.lessonsfromliterature.org – is the central hub of the program, where teachers can download a Classroom Manual and access other resources. The Lessons from Literature program includes:

  • Lesson plans aligned with National Standards for the English Language Arts that address themes of abuse, violence, inequality, family/interpersonal issues, and more;
  • A Lesson Template that serves as a guide for teachers to create or modify their own lessons;
  • Materials, including handouts and fact sheets on teen dating abuse, to prepare teachers and students to discuss abuse;
  • An online resource library of books, poems, songs, movies and more to help build creative and meaningful exercises into pre-existing lessons; and
  • Opportunities for teachers to share lesson plans, ideas, resources and experiences with each other and to identify professional development opportunities through this work.

“Teachers are powerful influencers, motivators and leaders,” said FVPF President Esta Soler. “Lessons from Literature is a groundbreaking tool that will make it easy for teachers to help students develop the skills to recognize and avoid dating violence so they can build healthy relationships. We are so proud to partner with the National Council of Teachers of English. Its reach will do so much to position educators to increase awareness about the damaging effects of physical, sexual and verbal abuse.”

Lessons from Literature is designed to easily integrate into a teacher’s existing curriculum. The new lessons empower teachers to encourage students to recognize abuse and its consequences and find alternatives to violence. Teachers in communities from Council Bluffs, Iowa to San Bernardino, California are piloting lesson plans from the program this spring. The novels, Their Eyes Were Watching God and Lord of the Flies, are the first two lessons available.

“Teachers are in a prime position to motivate their students to think critically about social issues, and inspire youth to think and act differently about relationships that go beyond friendship,” said NCTE Executive Director Kent Williamson. “Lessons from Literature gives teachers resources they can use to help students strengthen their academic skills while at the same time learning to recognize abusive situations and choose alternatives to violence.”

One in three teens reports knowing a friend or peer who has been hit, punched, kicked, slapped or physically hurt by a partner. Teens and young women are especially vulnerable to violence. Females ages 16 to 24 experience the highest rates of rape and sexual assault, and people age 18 and 19 experience the highest rates of stalking.

The American School Counselor Association (ASCA), Partnership for 21st Century Skills and a Curriculum Council of teachers helped develop Lessons from Literature. The Curriculum Council includes six high school English Teachers selected through a national search with more than 500 applicants. The six teachers from public schools across the country are masters in their field and dedicated to helping their students build healthy, non-violent relationships. The Curriculum Council has advised in the creation of every component of Lessons from Literature, including writing lesson plans and recommending strategies to engage teens and other educators.

More than 15 million children in the United States live in families in which partner violence occurred at least once in the past year. ASCA Assistant Director Jill Cook said, “Every day millions of lives are affected by violence in the home and the community. By engaging teens and helping them think critically about abuse, respect and relationships, we have the opportunity to interrupt the cycle of interpersonal violence that affects so many young people and puts them at risk for further violence later in life.”

“If teachers can shape the way young people think and act today, the social norms that currently perpetuate violence will change tomorrow,” Soler added.

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The Family Violence Prevention Fund works to end violence against women and children around the world, because every person has the right to live free of violence. For more information, visit www.endabuse.org.

The National Council of Teachers of English is devoted to improving the teaching and learning of English and the language arts at all levels of education. NCTE’s membership consists of over 84,000 educators and 16,000 high school English teachers.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

No Offense Pope Benedict, but Are You Freakin' Serious?

MSNBC reports today from Africa that Pope Benedict XVI made his first explicit anti-condom statement regarding the fight against HIV/AIDS epidemic:

From the MSNBC article:

"You can't resolve it with the distribution of condoms," the pope told reporters aboard the Alitalia plane headed to Yaounde, Cameroon, where he will begin a seven-day pilgrimage on the continent. "On the contrary, it increases the problem."
From the Telegraph newspaper in the UK:
While en route from Rome to his first stop, Cameroon, the Pope said that the condition was "a tragedy that cannot be overcome by money alone, that cannot be overcome through the distribution of condoms, which even aggravates the problems."

Seriously? His answer? Of course, abstinence. Because anyone who knows anything about health education knows the abstinence message works so well in preventing sexually transmitted infections...NOT! In my opinion, he may as well be saying those who get HIV/AIDS deserve it. And folks wonder why fewer and fewer people are identifying with organized religions...

May I just say, out of touch much, Pope?

Friday, March 13, 2009

Just Some Thoughts on the Meaning of Life

There is so much suffering going on around us right now, so I went searching today for some thoughts on the meaning of life. Victor Frankl, Austrian Holocaust survivor and existential therapist, had this to say:

"It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life - daily and hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the task which it constantly sets for each individual."
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"We must never forget that we may also find meaning in life even when confronted with a hopeless situation, when facing a fate that cannot be changed. For what then matters is to bear witness to the uniquely human potential at its best, which is to transform a personal tragedy into a triumph, to turn one's predicament into a human achievement. When we are no longer able to change a situation--just think of an incurable disease such as inoperable cancer--we are challenged to change ourselves."
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"Again and again I admonish my students both in America and Europe: 'Don't aim at success--the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run--in the long run, I say--success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it.'"

Victor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Thursday, March 12, 2009

What Works: Energy and Love

My weekly email from The Education Trust linked this article today about science educator, Tamica Stubbs. This Charlotte, NC teacher is no joke. She racks up grants, fellowships, and awards to give her students opportunities seldom found in high-poverty schools. She isn't bemoaning lack of resources, administrators that stand in her way, or the fatigue of teaching students identified by the masses as "at-risk". Instead, she is using energy and love to teach her students the skills they'll need to be successful in college and compete in a global society. She knows (and says so in the article), "If you grab their attention, you can teach them anything you want to."

I think I'll start to highlight more teachers on this blog who are doing what works. Sometimes we all need a little inspiration.


Wednesday, March 11, 2009

A Few Things

Colorlines, the national newsmagazine on race and politics, is enhancing its online content and shortening its print version. Read about it here. And read the current feature articles...excellent.

And for those of you familiar with the Jewish celebration of Purim, visit Jill at Writes Like She Talks for a little "funny". Hint: Rush Limbaugh becoming a Jew?

**can you tell I'm still struggling a bit w/my words? Until I find them, I'll keep posting these interesting little morsels.


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Free Gaiam Reversible Rug Giveaway!

Go here to enter a giveaway for a Gaiam reversible rug. It is FREE - and the rug is PRETTY!

Monday, March 9, 2009

A Documentary and An Interview

Two amazing pieces I must share with you - both from my friend, the journalist/activist/radical woman of color, Adele Nieves.

The first is a short clip of a documentary that follows the lives of battered women and their children living in underground shelters.




The second is a link to an interview of Adele by blogger, Madama Ambi. There is so MUCH listening to be done with this interview. It is imperative for white women who identify in any way with the feminist movement to listen to Adele explain the movement's marginalization of women of color. It begins with a personal - and breathtaking - piece titled, Why Do You Speak? I love it. I love Adele, and so will you after this interview.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Ain't This The Truth?

"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May

Here Comes the Sun

I love how this picture chases away the clouds today.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Hi there.

I don’t know where to start. Writing this is like trying to use a garden edger after it was left out in the rain. My page -my fingers - rusty with corrosion. The last couple of months I’ve ricocheted between despondency and sadness and liberation and resuscitation, never settling on one for too long. And I couldn’t blog about it. The one time I needed words to minister to my emotional ailments most, they wouldn’t come. So many nights, I crawled into bed, logged onto my site, and tried painstakingly to record what was going on inside. Nothing. Over and over again, there was nothing. So I muddled along. I left my husband, filed for and obtained a divorce, and learned how to become a single parent...all without my words. On top of that darkness and heartache, there was also rejection from my blog that while invisible to most, was stripping it its bitterness and no less painful than anything else I was experiencing. I’ve tried to put into verbal language what my heart has been speaking but I’ve been rusty and timid in my approach. Apologetic and insecure in a way I seldom am online.

So… here I am. Back to sharing and listening. Back to hoping.

I’m not going to rehash the last several months. I’m not going share confidences about my ex or our marriage settlement or parenting agreement, nor will I describe every moment I battled disappointment and fear. I’ll only say about my marriage that it was comfortable. Married 8 years and together almost 10, we had learned each other's rhythms, and our days melted one on top of the other into pools of the perfunctory. More days than not I'd awaken in the same bed, with the same man, and I'd ask myself, is this what you want the rest of your life to look like? And it wasn't. It isn't. No matter how much affection I felt for him - and how much guilt I felt about myself - I couldn't deny the truth that greeted me every morning: I didn't want this, and no matter how married I was, I still felt alone.

Other than that explanation, I’m starting fresh from today. I’m reconnecting with my favorite writers, and in a way reconnecting with my own voice because I know the perspective from which it is shared has changed.

But know this: I made it, and I’m here. I’m on my own with my daughter, both of us standing at the threshold of a new and exhilarating, frightening and overwhelming, rich and limitless world. And although the changes- and my seeming lack of control over them-sometimes threaten to drown me, I’m taking a step off this precipice, with longing and faith that good karma will be there to catch me.

It’s good to be back.